5 Ways to Spice Up Your Relationship
Sometimes a relationship can fall into something of a routine that it might lose that spark. You know, those butterflies of a fresh love start to slowly fade away. Don’t fret, though, it is actually quite normal albeit you can always do something to rekindle that flame. Do you want to increase the intimate time and thoughtful little events with your partner? Here are five ways to add spice to your relationship.
Unwind Together With Your Partner
For starters, there aren’t many better ways to spice up a relationship than just unwinding and bonding together. Yes, you could simply just take leave from work or some weekends off once in a while and do something fun with your partner.
The beauty is that there are many things you can do together, depending on what you both enjoy. For example, you can take some time off on weekends, go to a nice restaurant and have a date with your partner.
It doesn’t have to be a big fancy restaurant. You could even go on an evening date in an affordable restaurant near you where you can get to have a heart to heart bonding session with your partner.
If you both are adrenaline junkies and adventurous you could go for something like hiking or rock climbing together with your partner.
It’s all about getting creative and finding those activities that you both enjoy!
Rekindle the Romance Every Day
At times all you have to do is to relive the moments you shared, make new memories.You know, Just like those little moments that make you giggle and your heart flutter. Or something as simple as saying something sweet every once in a while can keep your relationship alive.
Don’t be afraid to send that dirty text when they are at work or even send that sneaky photo!
This will surely leave them squirming their entire shift then you can finish it off what you started when they come home with something like a romantic bath.
After that you could cuddle your partner to sleep. You can cuddle together and talk about funny things that made you laugh in the past. This simple act of intimacy will promote the secretion of feel-good hormones such as oxytocin.
Unleash Your Naughty & Inner Freak
One other way to spice up your relationship is to heat things up in the bedroom. After all, this is where the magic usually happens. Science has also shown that the more you have sex with your partner, the more sexual satisfaction you will both experience.
In the bedroom you can be anything you want with your partner from experiencing your sexual fantasies to sensual excitement.
We’re talking things like strip teasing for your partner to make them want you more. You can try tantric sexual positions to get that deeper emotional connection with your partner.
You could also try spooning or ice play or rather, play with ice cubes as you explore your partner’s body. It’s all about letting your imagination run wild.
Don’t be limited, you can introduce toys too! For one, you can go for a remote control vibrator which will certainly juice things up in your partnered play moments. In fact, you can enjoy a good play time even when you’re far away from your lover. You can do anything from adjusting its vibration intensity to changing vibration patterns from wherever you are through an app! You will both certainly enjoy turning up the heat as you play in a somewhat similar fashion to the way you do when you’re together.
Surprise Each Other More
It is always such an amazing feeling seeing your partner happy and smiling. And, you can get your partner smiling more with gestures like getting them a thoughtful romantic gift. You could surprise them with playful gifts like a remote control vibrator, a fun adult card game, or any erotic gift to spice things up.
You could also surprise them with a romantic indoor dinner date. You can cook some good food and set up the mood with some good lighting, perhaps romantic scented candles, then set up the dinner table with flowers.
You can play some soft music to create a romantic atmosphere.
Plan various exciting dates, such as watching Netflix movies.
Remember and Re-experience!
Remember that time you two had just started being an item, the shy glances, soft giggles and the nerves you felt then? Well, you two can still create your own fairy tale. You could visit places you have visited before with your partner. It could be where you first met which will help you bond more with your partner or probably where you first went on a date.
You can make it a tradition to have dinner there every anniversary. Celebrating your anniversary can help make you remember the great things you have achieved throughout your love journey.
You can take this a notch higher like say taking photos of memories and places you have been to together and make a photo album. You can decide to go the old school way and print out photos to preserve these memories. This will make your relationship stronger and much more intimate.
Wrapping up
In a nutshell, keeping the fire burning in your relationship is all about finding ways to bond and have more fun together. This all boils down to knowing your partner. In the spirit of Gary Chapman in his bestselling book, “The Five Love Languages”, you simply need to understand how your partner feels loved and how they express their love!